what do i do?
Published 1 year, 9 months ago in My life.well i might as well ask total dtrangers this question! you have no idea who im talking about! lol
okay, so i broke up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago, and im enjoying the freedom of being able to flirt with other guys! (yay) but by flirting with them, im starting to like them! problem is..the guys ive really started to like is one of my bestguy-friends…i dont wanna say anything in case he is still hooked on this other girl (i know he used to like her, but im not sure now…)
the other problem with this guy, is thatmy best girlfriend ‘doesnt’ like him, but we all know she has a soft-spot…i dont want to ruin our friendship because thats way more important. i know that she will say she doesnt, but will be peeved at me anyway…
what should i do?!?!?!
thanks
memopad
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It’s a bit confusing and sounds like an episode of Neighbours but-
1. Do what ever you like bugger the consequences and notch anything that happens up to life experience.
2. Realise that there are plenty of fish in the sea so why ruin any relationsships you already have ‘cos someone else will come along.
3. Get a life! Why waste your time on this sort of crap there are far more worthy pursits than boys.
4. Join a Nunnery.
I’d say talk to your friend… explain how you feel in a private, serious conversation, especially the part about you not wanting to ruin your friendship, and see if she comes clean and says she likes the guy. If she admits that she does have a soft spot for him, then don’t pursue him, find someone else. If she doesn’t admit it, even though you gave her a perfectly good chance to, then the guy is all yours, and it’s your friend’s fault for not being honest with you when she misses out.
Best of luck!
When you get to 50 all this nonesense of who likes who will all seem so minor! Just let it ride and whatever is meant to happen, will.
Yeah, go on spoil everything for everyone else… why should they be happy in relationships while you are heading for spinsterhood! lol
Most of the people I have been talking to on NOOK have been at least twice your age but we were all your age once and I remember these sorts of things happening alot. It is good that you ask strangers as you will get alot of different opinions. I say look outside the square you live in and don’t destroy a good friendship with either your girl friend or male friend. You could end up losing both. Venture out and find someone else. It seems like a terrible situation at the moment but believe me you will look back in years to come and laugh about it. I am not trying to make you feel silly just trying to make you realise that there are plenty more fish in the sea and I don’t think you really want to lose either of their friendship do you? If you persue this guy that could happen as he may not feel the same way and will feel uncomfortable around you once you tell him how you feel and your girlfriend will look at you as a threat to her happiness with this guy, regardless if she tells you she is not interested in him. Your girlfriend most likely would not tell you if she was interested in him as if she was and is a close friend as you say she would have told you before now. Tread carefully but remember good friends are hard to find so don’t lose the one’s you’ve got
Let me see if I’ve got this straight.
She likes him but She’s not sure that She should because She actually really does like him and She’s not sure if he likes her or the other her.
If he does like the other her then there’s a problem but if he doesn’t like the other her then She’s OK because She doesn’t really know and probably doesn’t like the other her.
Problem is that the other, other her, who She really likes, really doesn’t like him - except she has a soft spot so she might like him after all (by she I mean the other other her) but She will never know because the other other her will lie and say she doesn’t even if she does.
Relationships suck.
To hell with it Mem, jump him. If it doesn’t work out rent a movie and drink hot chocolate with your friend.
hahahahaha! lol you guys are great!!!! lol fossil i love your response! confused the crap out of me though! thanks guys, i think i’ll just keep them both as friends
after all, thats the most important thing!
thanks again
xoxx memo
okay…never mind… take that last comment back! i’ll keep one as a best friend and take the other for my boyfriend!!!! lol im glad im goig out with him now! yay!
thanks all
xoxx
memo
nice work you crazy kid.